As many of you know, me and the girls just went to Traverse City, Michigan and had a blast as usual! It was such a fun reward for a challenge weâve taken on the past couple of summers: Screen-Free June.
And honestly? Itâs totally changed our family in the best way. Whether you go all in or just take baby steps, I wanted to share why we love it and how it’s totally doable (even for busy parents who wish they were crunchier than they actually are đ).
How It Started: From âJust for Road Tripsâ to a Daily Battle
Why We Decided to Try Screen-Free June
The Challenge That Turned It Into a Family Win
Screen-Free Doesnât Have to Mean Boring
How This Impacts Sleep (and Why Itâs Worth Trying)
You Donât Have to Go All In to Make a Change
How It Started: From âJust for Road Tripsâ to a Daily Battle
A couple of years ago, we got iPads âjust for road tripsâ⊠and if youâve ever said that to yourself, you already know where this is going. Pretty soon, those screens werenât just for long car ridesâŠthey were becoming part of our everyday rhythm. And not in a good way.
We had four iPads across four kids (one of them barely worked), and it didnât take long before the âfunâ became a source of constant tension. Fighting over chargers, arguing about what to watch, sneaking extra time, and getting mad when it was taken away. It just wasnât worth it.
And Iâll be real with you: while screen time felt like a break for me, it was actually making parenting harder. The kids were more irritable, they listened less, and their ability to play independently justâŠdisappeared. Screens had become a crutch for all of us.
Why We Decided to Try Screen-Free June
Iâm not a psycho about this and Iâm definitely not here to shame anyone. I love mental health, Iâm all for realistic parenting, and I truly wish I were crunchier than I actually am. But I will say thisâgoing screen-free for one month has completely transformed our family dynamic.
We wanted to try something that felt like a reset, not a punishment. Just a break from the constant hum of screens and a chance to see what would happen if we leaned into boredom, creativity, and connection.
And what happened surprised us.
Within days of starting our first Screen-Free June, the shift in our home was tangible. The kids were bickering less. They were actually playing together. They rediscovered toys and games we hadnât touched in months. And I realized that I wasnât yelling nearly as much.
It felt like we were breathing again.
The Challenge That Turned It Into a Family Win
Now, letâs be honestâif I had just stood up and said âNo screens for 30 days!â I probably wouldâve had a full-blown rebellion on my hands. Thatâs why we turned it into a family challenge complete with rewards, buy-in, and teamwork.
Hereâs what we did:
- If we could stick to our screen-free goal for the whole month of June, weâd take a special trip to visit family in Michigan.
- Plus, each kid would get $100 to put toward a family activity of their choiceâthings we could all do together, like kayaking, mini golf, or visiting a zoo.
Framing it as a challenge made all the difference. The kids werenât being punishedâthey were working toward something. It gave us a reason to cheer each other on, celebrate little milestones, and laugh when things got tough. We even made a chart to track our progress, and that visual was a big motivator.
Screen-Free Doesnât Have to Mean Boring
One of the biggest misconceptions about going screen-free is that your kids are going to be bored out of their minds. And guess what? They will be bored. Thatâs kind of the point.
Because hereâs the thing: boredom is actually so good for our kids. Itâs where creativity lives. Itâs how they learn to solve problems, use their imagination, and engage with the world around them. If kids never get the chance to be bored, they never get the chance to be creative.
We stocked up on craft supplies, pulled old board games out of the closet, and got outside as much as possible.
Here are some of our absolute favorite screen-free activities:
- đł Nature scavenger hunts
- đš Painting with watercolors in the backyard
- đ§© Puzzle challenges (timed for fun!)
- đȘĄ Friendship bracelet stations
- đȘ” Fort-building with pillows, blankets, and fairy lights
- đ Library trips and summer reading bingo
- đ§ș Backyard picnics (even if itâs just PB&J)
- đŠ Water balloon toss or sponge relay
- đČ Board game tournaments with prizes
- đ§ Baking something new (and messy) together
- đ Creating a summer bucket list and checking things off
And honestly? Since going screen-free, the amount of reading my kids do has increased a thousand percent. Iâm not exaggerating. Books are their go-to now. Iâll walk into a room and find one of them curled up with a novel instead of begging for a device, and it feels like magic.
How This Impacts Sleep (and Why Itâs Worth Trying)
Because I talk about sleep all the time, I canât leave this out: screen-free days lead to better sleep.
Screensâespecially in the afternoon or eveningâcan mess with our kidsâ ability to wind down. Once we removed that stimulation, bedtime became smoother. The girls were calmer, transitions felt easier, and the whole evening vibe shifted. Less whining, more connection.
If your sleep routines are a little chaotic, this might be a really simple (and free!) place to start.
You Donât Have to Go All In to Make a Change
Maybe you’re not ready to ditch screens for an entire month. Thatâs okay! You can still experience the benefits of screen-free time by finding what works for your family.
Here are a few mini-challenges to try:
- One screen-free weekend
- No screens after 5 p.m. on weekdays
- A family “Tech-Free Tuesday”
- Replace screen time with family read-alouds or outdoor time
You donât have to go all in to make a change. Even small steps add up.
This isnât about guilt. Itâs about creating more space for the things that matterâconnection, creativity, and presence. And the truth is, once we started, we realized just how much we werenât missing the screens.
Now, we donât do a full-screen detox year-round, but our use has gone way down. And itâs made everything feel more manageable, more peaceful, and more fun.
Recap on Why We Do Screen-Free June
If youâre on the fence about trying a screen-free summer (or week, or weekend), consider this your sign. Itâs doable. Itâs worth it. And it might just change your family in ways you didnât expect.
Make it fun. Make it a challenge. Reward yourselves. And rememberâitâs not about being perfect. Itâs about being present.
10/10 recommend. đ
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